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August 2021, Issue 1

Dear Subscriber First Name,

Happy August and last month of summer :’)

As we begin to feel the gradual shift in season, my mind is on change. Helen, Janet, and Mel often discuss the importance of self-awareness on the pod. Self-awareness is crucial to sensing, preparing for, navigating and weathering life’s changes.

Lately, I’ve been feeling a restlessness—the kind that starts deep within. I know when change is coming because I feel it in the wind, and beneath my feet. It starts in the depths as a gentle rumble, the metaphorical tectonic plates shifting, echoing up and out to affect the shape of the water, the shape of the land.

When this happens, the (challenging) thing to remember is to heed that call, and that I, you, control the sail. The alternative (at least for me) is stagnancy, then implosion.

Recently, I heard Oprah say on her podcast, “nothing happens until you decide.”

Y’all. This statement simultaneously inspires terror and empowerment in me. Terror because if I choose to not make a change, I can already sense how bleak the future will feel; empowerment because I know that the call is mine to make.

We all have the power and the right to make that call in our lives—especially if we live somewhere the societal structures make it easy to “carpe diem” on a daily basis. (Trust, the privilege doesn’t escape me for a second.)

If you’re also feeling like it’s time to make some adjustments, I hope that you prioritize what you want and need most. Time. A new view. Adventure. Rest. Whatever it is, you have the power to create the shift you desire.

Carpe MF’ing Diem,
Haemee


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Hmong American gymnast Suni Lee’s victories at this summer’s Tokyo Olympics were a sensation. In addition to coverage of Suni’s story, I appreciated the spotlight on Hmong history in America, which is hardly ever discussed, and why her victory meant so much to her community. Read more here.

Watching Naomi Osaka light the Olympic cauldron gave me goosebumps. This year, we bore witness to her taking a stand by displaying support for Black Lives Matter, and prioritizing her mental health by withdrawing from the French Open’s post-game press conference. As Quartz reports, while Olympic rules do not allow athletes to take a knee or wear accessories with “political messaging”, the selection of Osaka to light the cauldron showed solidarity and an “endorsement of her values and right to express herself.”

145 years ago, the city of Antioch in California terrorized the Chinese community and burned down Chinatown. Antioch Mayor Lamar Thorpe issued a public apology to the early Chinese immigrants and their descendants, hoping to “speed racial healing and reconciliation and help confront the ghosts of the past”.

It’s Back-to-School season! Stock up your classroom or home library with these 20 children’s books that teach race and diversity.

For an example of corporate knockoffs properly rectified, look no further. Forever21 recently produced “KOREATOWN” T-shirts strikingly similar to Mike Pak aka @Koreatown’s varsity sweatshirts. In a lovely turn of events (fueled by the social media powers that be), Forever21 agreed to pull the shirts from all stores, and put their money where their mouth is by donating $20,000 to five local Koreatown organizations (for a total of $100,000).

ATTN Muslim writers & directors: applications for the Pillars Artists Fellowship are being accepted through September 1, 2021. Created in partnership with actor and activist Riz Ahmed and Left Handed Films, this program provides participating artists a $25,000 award, one-on-one mentorship, professional development, and community building. If this could be you, shoot your shot!

Asian immigrants brought Buddhism to America more than 150 years ago, yet Hollywood and general discourse continue to center around the White experience. As this NBC headline states, things are about to change: Young Asian American Buddhists are reclaiming narrative after decades of white dominance.

Reading: On Earth We’re Briefly Gorgeous by Ocean Vuong. “With stunning urgency and grace, Ocean Vuong writes of people caught between disparate worlds, and asks how we heal and rescue one another without forsaking who we are.”

Watching: In the Mood for Love by Wong Kar-wai. Influential, classic, and incredibly artful. If you haven’t yet watched this film, please do. As one writer put it, “Witnessing such a contemporary rendition of China and Hong Kong on the screen felt like worlds colliding […] It was also the first time I had ever seen characters onscreen who not only looked like me, but looked like the type of person I could be: free-spirited, hip, a product of both hemispheres.”

Eating: Dakjuk a.k.a. chicken rice porridge, or congee. An excellent comfort food, it’s also good for toothaches. I’ll be making variations of juk in the upcoming weeks as I begin my Invisalign journey. Wish me luck :)


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Last Christmas, Mel gifted Janet and Helen matching “ABG” necklaces to celebrate their sisterhood, business, and shared life adventure. After much demand, we’re thrilled to launch our “ABG” necklace, best worn in pairs (or trios) ;)

Limited run by our talented friend, Jayna Tuiasosopo, who handcrafts Polynesian-inspired statement pieces for her jewelry company, Niava, here in Los Angeles, California.

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We’re huge advocates for mental health. After Simone Biles and Naomi Osaka took unapologetic stands for their own, we’re even more committed. Therapy is a wonderful way to take care of the mind, because you can unload thoughts and feelings in a safe space. Find a therapist today with BetterHelp today. Get 10% off your first month at betterhelp.com/ABG (OR apply to be a counselor).

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